How to Talk to Your Doctor About Erectile Dysfunction

Many men live with erectile dysfunction for years before mentioning it to a doctor. Embarrassment and stigma are common barriers — but they are unfounded. ED is a medical condition, it is highly treatable, and your doctor has had this conversation many times before.

Why Men Avoid Talking About ED

According to the American Urological Association, nearly 70% of men with ED wait more than a year before seeking help. Common reasons: embarrassment, belief that ED is untreatable, fear of what the doctor might find, or not wanting to discuss sexual health with a familiar doctor. All are worth overcoming — as we explain in our article on ED and heart health, early assessment can also catch cardiovascular issues before they become serious.

How to Start the Conversation

Be direct. Examples:

• "I have been having difficulty getting or maintaining erections and would like to discuss it."
• "I have been experiencing erectile dysfunction — can we talk about treatment options?"
• "I think I might have ED — what causes it and what can I do?"

What Your Doctor Will Ask

• How long you have experienced ED and how often it occurs
• Whether you still get morning erections (helps distinguish physical from psychological causes)
• Your general health history — diabetes, heart disease, blood pressure
• Current medications (many common drugs cause ED)
• Alcohol, smoking, and recreational drug use
• Stress levels and mental health

Alternative: Online Consultations

If you are not ready to speak to your regular GP, Promedic offers a confidential free online consultation with licensed pharmacists. Private, professional, and no obligation to purchase. See our FAQ for answers before your consultation.